A candy buffet bearing yummy treats a big hit with kids of all ages!

Sand Dollars are tied with satin ribbon and double as table assignment cards and party favor

 

Turning Ordinary to Extraordinary!

Easy, Inexpensive Ideas that Will Impress!

 

Creating an extraordinary event is easy to do . . . you just need a few special touches: things that make your guests say, “WOW! She thought of everything!” These special touches will make your guests feel welcomed, appreciated and honored. The good news? It doesn't cost a lot of extra money, but oh! do they pack a lot of punch. Here’s some examples:

A set of over-sized pickling jars is a unique way to serve a variety of alcoholic and non-alcoholic punches

1. Have interesting invitations and save-the-date cards. Pack the envelope or secure the response card, envelope and directions with a ribbon or pocket of some sort so that all the paperwork doesn’t fall on the ground when the guest opens it.

2. Have paper cones filled with rose petals, or individual bubble blowers, or live butterflies for each of the guests to release during the recessional of the Bride and Groom.

3. Print your ceremony programs on paper hand-held fans. (colorful Card Stock with a tongue depressor)

4. Have your guests name printed as often as possible – people love to see their names in print.

5. Have truly creative place cards rather than the standard white folded “tent”. Have the florist attach a flower, or hot glue a dried flower. You could tie the place card to a Sand Dollar, or for a tropical feel, use cocktail umbrellas.

6. Have rice-paper parasols for the ladies at an outdoor event.

7. Offer cigars to the gentlemen after dinner.

8. Have a special children’s bag or children’s table filled with coloring books, crayons, toys and of course, CANDY!

9. Have plenty of things for people to do and see during the cocktail reception: signing the photo-mat, live entertainment, taking a “How well do you know the Couple?” quiz, photos to look at, etc.

. 10. Have a Candy Buffet for guest to enjoy during the reception.

11. Create a “Signature Drink” for the guests to enjoy.

12. Have a Margarita Bar where guests can create their own custom Strawberry, Mango or Lemon margarita.

13. Order fancy glassware and garnishes (cocktail umbrellas). Guests love these little touches.

14. Have an amenities basket in the rest-rooms with breath mints, hair spray, sewing kit, etc.

15. Have the Valet Parkers give guests a hot Chocolate Chip Cookie and bottle of water for their ride home.

16. Candles! Candles! Candles! a very inexpensive way to create a dramatic affect! People don’t eat by candlelight very often.

17. Give truly thought-filled party favors, beautifully wrapped and labeled.

18. Make sure to thank those people who have helped make the day possible.

19. Have a Slide Show or Video Montage for the guest to see during dinner. (8 minutes max)

20. Incorporate the Anniversary Dance into your reception program to honor longevity in marriage.

21. Have menu cards so the guests aren’t wondering what’s for dinner.

22. Have a ceremony program for the guest to know who is who.

23. Keep toasts and speeches as short and sweet at possible. (Long speeches should be done at the rehearsal dinner)

~ KELLY L. PASKEY, owner, Expanded Events

Photos courtesy of Bleu Cotton Photography

Neatly tucked into the dinner napkin, the guests place card is also the dinner menu

 

At the rehearsal dinner, a Bride receives traditional henna body art

 

The signature drink! Sour Apple Martinis are tray passed to the guests as they arrive.